Setting State Programatically
dataGridView1->Rows[Count]->Cells[COL_MAY_EXPORT]->Value = System::Windows::Forms::CheckState::Checked;
Reading State
if (Convert::ToBoolean(dataGridView1->Rows[0]->Cells[3]->Value))
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