Get Value Of An Attribute
HTML
<a href="javascript:void(0)" class="our_jquery_dialog" title="The Title" message="A message" usage_id="12345">Open The Form</a>
Javascript
var usage_id = $(this).attr("usage_id");
Get Value Of A Form TextArea
HTML
<textarea id='text_area_1' style='width:100%;' rows='2'>Default text</textarea>
Javascript
var new_text = $('textarea#text_area_1').val();
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